What are some old gay slang words you don't hear much anymore or don't read here on DL? I'll start:
Nellie queen
Butt pirate
'Mo
Carpet muncher
Sister-woman
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What are some old gay slang words you don't hear much anymore or don't read here on DL? I'll start:
Nellie queen
Butt pirate
'Mo
Carpet muncher
Sister-woman
by Anonymous | reply 107 | October 15, 2024 10:28 PM |
Fruit
by Anonymous | reply 1 | October 15, 2024 2:36 AM |
Friend of Dorothy
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 15, 2024 2:36 AM |
Light in the loafers
by Anonymous | reply 3 | October 15, 2024 2:36 AM |
Chicken
by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 15, 2024 2:37 AM |
pillow biter
by Anonymous | reply 5 | October 15, 2024 2:37 AM |
I was with a young gay couple yesterday and - talking about years ago - mentioned an old trick. That required translation.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 15, 2024 2:38 AM |
Flamer
by Anonymous | reply 7 | October 15, 2024 2:38 AM |
Pansy
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 15, 2024 2:38 AM |
He goes to my church.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 15, 2024 2:39 AM |
nancy boy
Uranian
catamite
Ganymede
by Anonymous | reply 10 | October 15, 2024 2:41 AM |
Toilet trader
by Anonymous | reply 11 | October 15, 2024 2:42 AM |
Invert.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | October 15, 2024 2:42 AM |
molly
Windward passage rider
sapphist
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 15, 2024 2:46 AM |
Light in the loafers.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 15, 2024 2:46 AM |
Mary. Takes it in the coat. Sword swallower.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 15, 2024 2:49 AM |
Cock gobbler. Homo. Dick licker. Butt munch. Rump rider. Pole vaulter. Fagala.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | October 15, 2024 2:51 AM |
Friend of Dorothy
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 15, 2024 2:53 AM |
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by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 15, 2024 2:54 AM |
Fairy
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 15, 2024 2:55 AM |
Bum boy
Nancy boy
Poof
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 15, 2024 3:01 AM |
Butt slammer.
Twinkle toes.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 15, 2024 3:03 AM |
r6, I use the term "trick" all the time, young folks don't know it?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 15, 2024 3:07 AM |
I still say Mo’ OP and I’ve said it on here. I picked it up from some hipster friends of mine in college.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 15, 2024 3:12 AM |
Cupcake. Limp wrist.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 15, 2024 3:17 AM |
Rump ranger
Dick smoker
Scissor sister
Gary
by Anonymous | reply 26 | October 15, 2024 3:21 AM |
Growing up, my dad called gay men gumps; he used the F word indiscriminately to anyone who pissed him off. I’ve only ever heard black men refer to us that way. Is it a black or generational thing.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 15, 2024 3:25 AM |
One of those boys
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 15, 2024 3:28 AM |
Fruity Pierre
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 15, 2024 3:30 AM |
[quote][R6], I use the term "trick" all the time, young folks don't know it?
Well, 23-skidoo, [italic]I[/italic] do!
I use it with all the boys when we're bunnyhuggin', and Lindy-hoppin', and jitterbuggin'!
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 15, 2024 3:35 AM |
Sheldon's got the Chevy!
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 15, 2024 3:38 AM |
A hint of mint
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 15, 2024 3:42 AM |
Lavender as a stand-in term for the gay & lesbian demographic. I remember when the Kripalu yoga center catalog had Finding Lavender Love as a regular program. It was a singles mingle weekend for the ‘mos of both sexes. This was before bi and trans took their spaces in the lgbt contingent. .
by Anonymous | reply 33 | October 15, 2024 3:46 AM |
Sissy. Fudge Packer(my fav).
by Anonymous | reply 34 | October 15, 2024 3:47 AM |
Cock sucker. Swish. Rump Wrangler. Femme.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | October 15, 2024 3:52 AM |
Of the Oscar Wilde type
by Anonymous | reply 36 | October 15, 2024 4:02 AM |
Diesel dyke, fagmo, lipstick lesbian, fudgepacker, lesbetarian, one of the boys, lesbonic, cocksucker, Dutch boy, cornholer, clamdigger, DQ, drag king, dick licker, bulldagger, Nancy Boy, cunt hunter, poofter, aggressive, two spirit, trade, winkte, fagela, finocchio, heteroflexible, lezzie, geigh, bent, flit, butch, bugger, bean flicker, shirt lifter, bluff, sapphic sister,
by Anonymous | reply 37 | October 15, 2024 4:15 AM |
Look up Polari for an entire new world. There might still be a Polari Dictionary.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | October 15, 2024 4:17 AM |
Bum chum
by Anonymous | reply 39 | October 15, 2024 5:23 AM |
Queer bait. Dick licker.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | October 15, 2024 5:26 AM |
"Is he 'family'?".
by Anonymous | reply 41 | October 15, 2024 5:31 AM |
Dropping hairpins
by Anonymous | reply 42 | October 15, 2024 5:38 AM |
Giving men women's names ad nicknames is the big one from pre-Stonewall that died around the 90's. "Oh yeah, I was at the bar with Delia and Sue."
by Anonymous | reply 43 | October 15, 2024 5:39 AM |
I get most of these but what does "takes in the coat" mean r15?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | October 15, 2024 5:39 AM |
"Bent," which apparently is how the still much-used antonym "straight" came into being.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | October 15, 2024 5:44 AM |
Saying French and Greek instead of top and bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | October 15, 2024 5:45 AM |
George Chauncey's epic early 20th century gay history book is a goldmine for this kind of info.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | October 15, 2024 5:50 AM |
Sister-boy
by Anonymous | reply 48 | October 15, 2024 6:30 AM |
She sips from the furry chalice.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | October 15, 2024 6:39 AM |
Shirt-lifter
by Anonymous | reply 50 | October 15, 2024 6:40 AM |
The love that dare not speak its name.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | October 15, 2024 6:57 AM |
He likes to take a stroll down the dirty pathway.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | October 15, 2024 7:01 AM |
Dinge queen, and may it die an eternal death.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | October 15, 2024 7:02 AM |
foot tapper
by Anonymous | reply 54 | October 15, 2024 8:37 AM |
Greek active/Greek passive
by Anonymous | reply 55 | October 15, 2024 9:43 AM |
face like a bucket of boiled ass holes
by Anonymous | reply 56 | October 15, 2024 10:20 AM |
Pansy!
by Anonymous | reply 57 | October 15, 2024 11:28 AM |
Passive for bottom
Active for top
by Anonymous | reply 58 | October 15, 2024 11:31 AM |
See Tarzan
Hear Jane
A big muscular guy who looks like a he- man but when he opens his mouth he sounds like Richard Simmons.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | October 15, 2024 11:32 AM |
Did I miss it or am I the first to write "Hershey highway"?
by Anonymous | reply 60 | October 15, 2024 11:35 AM |
Pitcher (top), Catcher (bottom)
by Anonymous | reply 61 | October 15, 2024 11:39 AM |
Fancy Pants
by Anonymous | reply 62 | October 15, 2024 11:40 AM |
Stud Muffin
by Anonymous | reply 63 | October 15, 2024 11:40 AM |
She and Her when a gay man is referring to another gay man, not to be confused with gender pronouns that Trans insist everyone use like he/him, she/her They/Them or IT.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | October 15, 2024 11:44 AM |
trade (rough trade)
chicken (chicken hawk)
hair burner
ribbon clerk
by Anonymous | reply 65 | October 15, 2024 11:45 AM |
From the UK-
One of THEM.
Puddle jumper
Good with colours
Bum chum
by Anonymous | reply 66 | October 15, 2024 11:55 AM |
Puftah
by Anonymous | reply 67 | October 15, 2024 12:01 PM |
Vagitarian.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | October 15, 2024 12:07 PM |
AC/DC
A devotee of Greek Love
A confirmed Bachelor
At the risk of warranting the wrath of R18, I knew immediately as a kid what our babysitter -- an older Irish woman -- meant when she referred to a friend of my younger brother as a "Mary." Whenever I say it myself, it's always with an Irish lilt to my voice!
by Anonymous | reply 69 | October 15, 2024 12:32 PM |
South Africans used to be called bunny boys, I shit you not, man! 🐰
by Anonymous | reply 70 | October 15, 2024 12:51 PM |
Homosexualist
by Anonymous | reply 71 | October 15, 2024 1:16 PM |
r30, really? I use it and people don't get weird about it. I'm in my mid-fifties. old enough to have seen the film "trick" when it came out. and yeah, I can lindy-hop for the record, it made a big comeback in the 90s
by Anonymous | reply 72 | October 15, 2024 1:25 PM |
FAG is still used a lot, for obvious reasons.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | October 15, 2024 1:40 PM |
Frocio
Succhiacazzi
Pirata del culo
Figa di ragazzo
by Anonymous | reply 74 | October 15, 2024 1:44 PM |
"Today's trade is tomorrow's competition."
by Anonymous | reply 75 | October 15, 2024 1:45 PM |
Schwuchtel Warmer Bruder
by Anonymous | reply 76 | October 15, 2024 2:00 PM |
Thank you to everyone who has posted. LOVE all these!
by Anonymous | reply 77 | October 15, 2024 2:19 PM |
Shirt lifter
by Anonymous | reply 78 | October 15, 2024 2:25 PM |
Tearoom Queen
by Anonymous | reply 79 | October 15, 2024 2:27 PM |
"Dectectable".
by Anonymous | reply 80 | October 15, 2024 5:37 PM |
Nancy boy
by Anonymous | reply 81 | October 15, 2024 5:59 PM |
French / Greek
I remember seeing that in gay mags and other places in the 80's - to this day, I still don't know which is which. Too lazy to Google it. I assume top/bottom - but I'm not sure and don't know what France or Greece has to do with it. (Although ancient Greek homosexuality is obvious).
by Anonymous | reply 82 | October 15, 2024 6:04 PM |
F.rench A.nd G.reek, ding-dong.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | October 15, 2024 6:11 PM |
bats for the other team
by Anonymous | reply 84 | October 15, 2024 6:13 PM |
Lambda
by Anonymous | reply 85 | October 15, 2024 6:20 PM |
There is plenty of information about British Polari on the net. You can find a mini-documentary below.
Be nanti naff and let us cackle 'bout the feely omis you wanna arva, you bitaines!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | October 15, 2024 6:21 PM |
Read this one in a gay erotic story ages ago and never forgot it: tubesteak cowboy.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | October 15, 2024 6:24 PM |
She goes to Tuna Town
by Anonymous | reply 88 | October 15, 2024 6:30 PM |
R70 In Jamaica they call em batty boys.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | October 15, 2024 6:44 PM |
Q: "Is he 'funny'?"
A: "No, just British."
by Anonymous | reply 90 | October 15, 2024 7:00 PM |
the racial ones: rice queen, bean queen, chocolate queen
by Anonymous | reply 91 | October 15, 2024 7:08 PM |
The slang word "chicken" faded by the 1990s. "Twink" replaced it.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | October 15, 2024 7:11 PM |
William Haines’ best buddy.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | October 15, 2024 7:12 PM |
Chickenhawk needs an update. Twinkhawk doesn’t work.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | October 15, 2024 7:14 PM |
"Rough Trade".
"Auntie" - an old gay man.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | October 15, 2024 7:15 PM |
"Wrinkle Room" - a room (usually a barroom) full of old gay men.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | October 15, 2024 7:17 PM |
muscle mary
by Anonymous | reply 97 | October 15, 2024 8:05 PM |
Butt buddies
by Anonymous | reply 98 | October 15, 2024 8:05 PM |
Uphill Gardener
Knob Jockey
Ryan Murphy's protégé
by Anonymous | reply 99 | October 15, 2024 8:55 PM |
“Is he ‘so’?”.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | October 15, 2024 9:44 PM |
Liza’s husband
by Anonymous | reply 101 | October 15, 2024 9:48 PM |
Nudge-nudge, wink-wink
by Anonymous | reply 102 | October 15, 2024 9:55 PM |
Queer as a 3 dollar bill.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | October 15, 2024 9:59 PM |
Gay as a soccer bat.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | October 15, 2024 10:01 PM |
R105 I’ve heard of gay as a goose never a soccer bat tho.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | October 15, 2024 10:12 PM |
The most sophisticated of queer dialects is Polari, a language which originated in London’s 19th-century music halls, before growing to near ubiquity in the 1930s theatre districts. Based on an earlier language called Parlyaree, a rudimentary dialect used by travellers in the Mediterranean from the 17th century onwards, Polari was a mix of Romani, Italian, Yiddish, backslang (think ‘riah’ instead of ‘hair’) and native Cockney rhyming slang.
Polari allowed gay men to talk privately while in the company of heterosexual people. It entered mainstream usage in the 1960s when it appeared in the BBC’s radio comedy show Round the Horne (where Hugh Paddick and Kenneth Williams played two out-of-work actors, Julian and Sandy). Polari, with its association with hyper-effeminate men, had reached the point of parody. After the decriminalisation of homosexuality in 1967, its everyday use fell into decline.
Polari is rarely used today, although many unknowingly still use it. Words such as ‘camp’, ‘naff’, ‘butch’, ‘ogle’ and many more were born out of the dialect.
While much research into gay slang and argot focuses on male culture, lesbian communities also have a long history of underground forms of communication. In 1920s Berlin there was a lesbian magazine called Die Freundin. In France, the constitution of 1791 meant that there was a relative lack of persecution against same-sex lovers, resulting in vibrant communities with their own slang and customs. Many queer women, including the writer Gertrude Stein, moved to Paris as it became a haven for same-sex lovers.
Montmartre in particular was home to a large lesbian community, with many residential blocks and restaurants becoming almost exclusively female, and cafes such as the Souris and the Rat Mort became established. A survey in 1836 suggested that more than half of all female prostitutes in Paris were lesbian. The 19th-century city produced some of the most delightfully obscure slang: ‘it smells of garlic here’, meant ‘there are lesbians about’ and ‘chestnut gatherer’ meant sodomite.
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